The cycle of the love affair with a married man almost always ends in broken hearts, hurt, and wasted time.
The ideal woman for this guy is the girl who has been hurt many times by single men and is in the stage where she just wants someone to love her.
After they meet and exchange conversation, he realizes what he has been missing at home and decides to pursue his happiness with her on the side.
However, filling the void may backfire on him, as the relationship may escalate from occasional lunches during work hours or early dinners disguised as “working late”, to the more intimate texting and instant messages all night long.
This is hook line and sinker for the woman, as she automatically thinks, “oh, he wants to talk to me so badly that he’s risking getting caught!
”, and perceives this as being put first (the one thing that women want to feel in a relationship).
By this time, she is more than likely already aware of the fact that he is unhappy in his marriage and the more time she spends with him she makes sure to plea her case as to why he should be with her instead.The man more than likely plays into this often times telling her things such as “I wish I could have met you years ago”.This makes her feel as if the only thing keeping them apart is the ring on his finger.Unfortunately, even if she is not ready to admit it, her subconscious desire is for him to make the dream come true, and leave his wife.The worst thing to do is sleep with the married man as once the adultery is official, the dynamic of the relationship drastically changes.The woman goes through self-esteem issues and starts to wonder why she is settling for less than what she deserves.