Here’s what she told me: “His culture and ex wife started a personal jihad against me and [my husband] folded like a envelope.
There’s no doubt that people of color are constantly jockeying for the spot as model minority status in this country, but no such group strives as such more than Asian people.
I have a tremendous amount of respect for their discipline, self-sacrifice, and unity.
But it’s that unity that I believe can be a major stumbling block for dating Asian men.
Yes; there’s a handful of success stories, but I have to be honest…they are few.
And compared to the amount of white men interested in interracial dating, it far outweighs that of Asian men.
Since we did the video conference on BW/AM couples, I’ve gotten a HUGE amount of private emails from Asian men.Some say they love dating black women and prefer it, but still there are others who are not shy about being honest about the real challenges.To compound the issue, a long time fan of this site, married for years to an Indian man which whom she shares a son, suddenly separated from her husband because of pressure in the Indian community who has never accepted my friend.I’m sure you are no stranger to the whole “Asians are very traditional” argument.While this is beaten to death, it doesn’t make it any less truthful.I don’t want to give a history lesson, but basically speaking your typical Asians like Koreans, Chinese, Indians, etc live in societies with large populations which creates a lot of pressure and competition.