When I was dating, there was no soft butch, stud bitch, etc. Being shy is okay, but it hasn’t gotten you a date in 28 years.
If you want to see some change in your life, you’ve got to make changes.
There are many other great places to meet lesbians.
Here are my Top 10 places to meet other lesbians and bisexual women.
I don’t know where you live, but if you’re in a community where people are out and open, you can meet lesbians just about anywhere, doing anything you enjoy.
I have heard from many lesbians of all ages that they have met their partners online.
If you do meet someone online, eventually you will probably want to meet her in person, but hopefully by that time you will have emailed and talked to her on the phone enough that a face-to-face encounter won’t scare you to death!
Here are two articles to get you started: Another great way to meet lesbians is to get involved with activities that interest you.
Certainly going to a bar is not for everyone, especially people who have issues with alcohol.
By Kathy Belge I haven't been with a woman since 1980. I did glance at your site explaining how to go about trying to "catch" someone’s eye. I’m older now and needless to say my assets have dropped!
There have been a couple of women, but nothing with any promise. I actually believed anyone should be thrilled to have someone love them to the degree I love. I will consider any advice you provide as long as it doesn't mean I have to go out and try to talk to someone. My last partner was a woman everyone waited for in the bar just to dance with her! I’m sure it took a lot of guts for you to write for advice. But I’m not sure the advice I’m going to give you is the advice you are looking for.