Did you know that most individuals who have experienced sex addiction and have taken their recovery process very seriously and remain committed to it for life can be some of the healthiest individuals, despite their past challenges?
Relationships in general take a lot of hard work, but many people are not willing to engage in the hard stuff to make their relationships easier down the road.
If people do not feel that they have an addiction or struggle with any kind of sexual integrity issue, it is more challenging for them to understand the need to have boundaries around their relationship to protect it from anything that can cause it to weaken.
It is essential that they share their feelings appropriately and be truthful with themselves and that they avoid anything that would cause even a hint of suspicion by others.
One way that you will know that your dating partner is someone who values integrity is to watch him or her.
Does this person’s behavior coincide with his or her belief system?
Is he open about his life’s journey while using discernment?
For example, a person who has abused alcohol needs to stay away from bars and heavy drinking venues to avoid temptation.
The same goes for people with sex addiction; they have certain places they cannot visit, movies they cannot watch, and websites to stay clear of, and even conversations with other individuals that may trigger certain thoughts or feelings.
Therefore, people who have recovered from sex addiction and have moved toward a healthy outlook in life will more than likely be very respectful and aware of situations that may be uncomfortable for their partner, such as noticing attractive people in the partner’s presence or even while alone or putting themselves in a position that could be cause for concern, such as eating lunch alone with a coworker of the opposite sex.
INTEGRITY: Most people recovering from sex addiction have learned the benefits and the importance of having integrity in their life.
Does she show consistency in making decisions with integrity in all areas of her life (i.e., financial, family, work), not just in relationships?