That means when you join one of these groups you are guaranteed to be around other people who have herpes.
It can be very uncomfortable to date when you have herpes.
The last thing you want to have to do is stop when its getting steamy in order to tell the person you are with that you have herpes.
At the same time you don’t want to pass it on to anyone else, then they would have to go through the same thing that you are.
Almost all the time by the end you will either end the buzz or the other person will no longer be interested in sex.
While you should never be humiliated by the fact that you have herpes it is reasonable that you would at least be uncomfortable with it.
There are options though where you don’t have to worry about others knowing that you have herpes. In any large city there are groups that are dedicated to connecting people with herpes.
Having herpes is a prerequisite for being part of the group.
Traditional dating with herpes is free but it is awkward.
Before you have any sexual contact you have to stop and explain that to the person that you have herpes.
More often than not this will result in the other person freaking out.
You have to explain the details of suffering from herpes.